Been a while again. I just don't have time to blog. Sem 3 just started and all the headaches stated as well. Accounting is not as easy as it seems. But I just have to work harder now.

Melbourne is beautiful guys. You should visit it if you're a travel enthusiasts. It gets really cold during winter so it's better to visit during summer.

I am really glad I chose to come here. Everything is going well for me here. I got a good education, new experience... And most of all I met my love of my life here. Yes my boo. She's the best woman I've met besides my mum and my babysitter. She does a lot for me, cooks great food, takes me out and all... Yeah she drives cause I don't have a valid license here...

We went for bhajan last night. Her mom was there. They gave gifts to give the mothers there for the mothers day celebration. As soon as she gave her gift to her mom, her mom gave her a hug and kissed her. That moment was so touching and cute. I felt so touched that a droplet of tears ran down my face. How I wished my mom to be here too. I'm sure my boo would've gotten her a gift as well.

When we were on the way back, I gave her a peck on the cheek for fun. She laughed and made fun of my emotional side. We are having the best time ever in this relationship. I met all her friends too and they are nice people. All good fun here. If only my friends and family are here to enjoy with me.

There's always a good and bad side to life. You can't have all the best things. In my case I found my soul mate but I don't have my family and friends here. It's like yin and yang. There's always something balancing it out. That night before we went to sleep she told me that she understand my situation and she's willing to help me out under whatever circumstances. She gave me a tight bear hug and a kiss before we slept. I love her tender and warm gestures towards me. It keeps me comfortable at all times.

I'm so happy right now and I can only wish for the best in the future. For all you boys out there who claims girls always chest you and that sort of crap, you just haven't found the right woman. Till then you got no rights to complain about women. Respect your woman fellas and you shall enjoy your life afterwards. There's no such thing as she nags you or controls you.

The past few months

Hey everyone. I'm soooo sorry I didnt post anything for the past few months. I was fucking busy, had exams and all kinds of crap bothering me at the wrong time. Alright so I'll just summarize what happened from where I stopped. There's some good news and some bad news.

So from the last post I said I was gonna propose to the woman I liked. Took her out for dinner. It was romantic, we had a stroll by the harbor in Docklands. And then I proposed. She took a while to respond as clearly she was kind of shocked and she didnt expect me to propose on that day or even on that month but I did. Eventually she did accept it and we were officially a couple.

Everything was going fine, we were enjoying our time being a couple. I was so thankful of her as I feel she completes my life. A few weeks later, she decided to rent an apartment near the city as its nearer her job and also her uni. She asked me to move in as well. I thought for a while and I move in with her, its nearer my uni as well. She told me not to worry about the rent as her job can cover it up. I insisted on sharing the rent but she wouldn't let me so I decided to pay for the groceries every month.

Living with her was excellent. It reminded me a lot of the good times I had when I was living with my parents. Her cooking was amazing and I gained a little bit of weight as well. Haha. Everything is going smooth and I feel like settling down as soon as I complete my studies next year. We are not gonna tie the knot or anything like that, we aren't the type that believe in marriages and we certainly dont like kids either.

I made plans to stay here for a while like for at least 5 years and she agreed to move back to malaysia one day in the future. Right now I'm on my semester breaks and she just started her semester again.

I walk her to the train station every morning for safety purposes and I wait for her when she is back. We go for a jog in the evenings and sometimes we play a little bit of football. I hope our lives continue being amazing like this. I love being with my lady at all times. Only regret right now is that I never met her sooner.
Thats about all that happened in the past few months I have been missing. More updates to follow hopefully. Until next time folks.

The lovely train ride

So its been more than a month now since I first started talking to R. If you still dont know, this is the woman of my life. I waited for years to find someone like her. She is an amazing person. The type of girl that guys dream of.
I have stated before how she is such a devotional person and also does charities. She cares more about others than herself. She has a beautiful voice, similar to an angel. We have gotten really close in the past month. I'm so glad I decided to talk to her that day.
We normally meet up at the train station after our classes ends and since we live in the same area, we take the same train home. Just the other day she was extremely exhausted due to extreme activities she took part in uni. So as usual we got on the train and she would tell me how her day went. This time she was damn tired and is felt that she needs a rest. After a while in the train I realized that she had fallen asleep. The best part was, she had fallen asleep on my shoulder. I was overjoyed at that moment.

The first time she has done it. I gently moved her head from my shoulder right to my lap. I thought it would make it more comfy for her and it did. While she was asleep, I played with her nice and long hair. The train was chilly and I felt she was shivering, I threw my jumper on her so that she would feel warmer since its a long ride home. I thought to myself, I would do anything for her, even give my life. I would protect her no matter what.
Towards the end of the train ride, she woke up and she thanked me for helping her out. I just smiled and gave her a positive nod.
We took the bus back home after we reached the station. She invited me for coffee in her place. I couldn't refuse. She made me coffee and we had a good chat that night. About ten I decided to leave. Before I left, she gave me a hug and said thanks for everything.
I reached home and I started thinking, its time I proposed to her. I'm planning a romantic dinner this wednesday night. I'm gonna confess to her about my feelings. I hope she accepts. I got a feeling she will.

Till next time folks. Au revoir.

friends in Australia

Currently in semester two of my course. In fact it just started last week. I'm already feeling the pressure of the new semester. Lots of assignments to do, home works, notes, tests and some unwanted pressure from idiots.
I have two close friends in uni. I used to have lots of friends back in my high school and college days but ironically this time round I only have two close friends. One is a Pakistani named Syed, unfortunately he postponed this sem as he has gone home and another is a Romanian born Italian woman, Anca.
The three of us were always together in sem 1 and currently only me and Anca in sem 2. The weird thing is we became close because of a bad habit of ours. Yes the three of us are smokers. And this is the reason why we became close. During the breaks in sem 1 I would usually exit the uni just to have some cigarettes. Fortunately I wasnt the only one, the other two also were in the same place as me.
We just gradually started talking to each other and slowly we became friends. We had our usual hang out times at the cafe nearby and we would talk about some interesting topics. Syed has been here since 2009 and this is the first time he is returning home. He is very good in accounting and scored the best in the whole faculty for accounting last sem.
Anca arrived in Melbourne around the same time as me. She initially was supposed to enroll earlier but due to some problems with the visa application she had to differ which is a blessing in disguise really. She is 32 years old. She had done a degree in language and she can speak in English, italian, Romanian, French and Japanese. She told me that she needed a new start in life and the job she had wasnt getting her anywhere. She packed her stuff and dragged her husband along with her to australia to pursue a second degree.
These two friends of mine really helped me through my toughest times here. I really am grateful for all their help. And me and Anca are slowly beginning to miss Syed. Only bad thing is we live so far away from each other. Only Syed and anca lives nearby but for them to get to me will take ages. I'm with anca right now smoking in the cafe as I write this out. Friends are always useful in our lives.

Potential problems

I like to over think stuff. Something petty can be made huge by my brains. I dont know why but it always happens. That's not all, most nights I dont go to sleep that fast, I would just lay there thinking about stuff and the worst case scenario is that I dont sleep at all that night.
Why am I telling you this?? Well I just figured a potential threat to our relationship, once we get together that is, due to me over thinking the circumstances. You see, I have stated before that I love my home and after completing my studies, I would definitely move back home. I dont plan to stay here, its not suitable for me and I just can't leave everything behind.
Likewise, R, she was born here in Australia. Her parents moved here from Sri Lanka and most of her family members are here as well. Naturally, being born here she has all her close friends and family members throughout her life. She is also the only child in the family.
So the thing is, there would be a potential conflict when the time I have completed my degree. I am pretty sure she, like me, is not gonna sacrifice everything here just to join me back home. Its not gonna happen and it ain't easy. Its gonna be a struggle if either of us do sacrifice something. The worst part is there can be no compromise to this. I can't come up with any to start with. I also thought that I dont one to be the guy who separates her from her family and friends.
See what my brains have done. This all happened in just five minutes of daydreaming. I'm just so lost thinking about this potential problem I have and I just can't stop thinking about it. It really is depressing in my point of view. I had no luck previously with relationships but just as I am about to establish one major problem arises.
Whatever it is, its still too early to tell since we aren't in a relationship yet (we are getting there). I am not sure if we would pull through but I have a grave feeling about this. Oy time will tell folks.

PS: we are going to the beach tommorow. More updates soon.

Hands that serve are more holier than lips that pray

I didn't have to go to uni today, my schedule is so awesome that I don't have classes on Fridays and Mondays for this semester, how cool is that?? It was a normal day for me, I just sit around relaxing. I watched the latest episode of How I met your mother. It was the episode where Barney meets the mother,  rejects his advances and give him some really good life advises that finally led to Barney coming up with "The Robin" which eventually led them to get married. The advise the mother gave was really a point to note as it helps young, lonely fellas like me.

Anyways moving on from that, I met up with my love, R, and she took me somewhere. I asked her where are we going but she kept saying to me that hands that serve are more holier than lips that pray. I didn't understand what she said but we just carried on till we reached the destination. Turns out that we were gonna help wrap up some food and deliver it to a church which is sending the food for people in the Philippines.

Most of you people out there should know by now that the Philippines is struck by a typhoon. There are many casualties and many people have lost their homes and valuables as well. Being a good Samaritan as always, R had decided to volunteer to collect these food and send it to the church and she had enlisted me to help her as well.

When we arrived, she grabbed my arm and hurried me to help the folks there. We packed some milk, pastas, canned foods and some biscuits in a basket, each basket for a pair of individual. We spent about 3 hours doing that and I think we had about 700 baskets to be delivered to the church. We had stored about 50 baskets in her car and we drove to the church which was 10 minutes away.

After delivering the goodies, we decided to have our dinner. We drove to an Italian restaurant nearby. I told her you're a really good person and she would definitely be blessed by god himself. She just said that if everyone decided to help each other, the world would be a better place. I was speechless, could you find a girl who thinks like this out there? There are but these kind of girls are a rarity.  Now you see folks, the reason why I'm madly in love with her? Its not about her looks or whatsoever, but its because she has a heart of gold.

I also found out one more thing that we have in common. Turns out she is a big fan of rap songs. I was like woaahhh you like rap?? And its not any kind of rap songs, its the 90's rap songs in other words old skool rap songs. She loved listening to NWA , Tupac Shakur and also Notorious B.I.G. She loves all the rappers that I love. Coincidence or destiny?? Judge for yourself. Lol.

It was a pleasure helping out today but I am tired as hell. She just dropped me off and I'm about to hit the sack. Goodnight folks for now.

Romantic times.

Hey everybody!! I have posted earlier about the girl that I am currently interested in, let's call her R. She is a magnificent person and I'm sure all you guys out there would say the same for your own lady love. I'm saying she's a magnificent person in my point of view. She has seriously good qualities in her that just ticks all my boxes.
I currently live in my late aunt's house and with my grandmother who had lived here for 20 over years. Being an ardent Sai devotee, my grandmother attend the bhajans (songs of gods sang by a group of ppl) held every week. It is in these bhajans that I first met R as I am obliged to accompany granny there every week. She was one of the earliest there  setting up the altar. Being a timid person, I did not have the guts to talk to her and the other folks there and instead I just kept to myself at a corner of the room.
I told myself to go and make new friends it would be fun but I was quiet all the while. She was dressed in traditional clothes which really mesmerized me. I kept looking at her. She is quite tall, I think about 176cm about 3 cm lesser than my height, she had nice long curly hair and she had nice brown skin tone. I thought that she was quite pretty.
As the weeks passed I saw her more frequently and I also found out that she lived in the same suburb as me.
I started developing feelings for her when I found out some of her activities she does. She is like an activist. She helps at orphanages, she has volunteered at the SPCA here, she has helped homeless people, she helps in soup kitchens, she frequently donates blood and many more volunteer work. I had always wanted to date a girl like this. One of the main thing is that she loves animals just like me. As soon as I found out about her activities I started falling head over heels for her. There's not many girls out there that does what she does.
A month later they had a morning prayer session in her house. I couldn't help myself so I decided to follow my granny there. Woke up about 4am and I had to drag myself to the car. When I entered her home, there were no sign of her, I thought maybe she ain't joining us today and I proceeded to the living room. The guests all arrived and her hall was filled with devotees. A while later I got excited as I saw her enter the hall and she had a sit right next to me. I was damn lucky that day. She was one of the singers at the prayer and my god her voice was so melodious and cute in some ways.
After the prayer ended, they had prepared breakfast for the devotees. I had my breakfast and I saw her just wandering around without anyone to talk to. I mustered all the courage I had and I started a conversation with her. As usual I introduced myself and all. I found out she was 22 and she is already doing her masters. I thought to myself that she must be a really smart woman. We had a pretty long conversation. I managed to obtain her contact number.
I immediately started texting her that night itself. I couldn't help myself I just had to do it. She is that type of girl that u wanna spend  your life with.
Those conversations turned into dates. Yes we are currently dating but we aren't in a relationship yet. The other day she had to go to this party so she asked me to tag along. I met some of her friends and apparently she is the only one in her gang of friends that is single. We had a good time that night especially when we danced. I felt that we were more intimate at that time. We left the party at about 3 am, she drove me home. As I was about to leave the car she gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek. She said thanked me for accompanying her. I couldn't sleep that night. I kept thinking about her and only her. I'm currently giving it more time, I dont know when I will confess to her. Only time will tell.